Prostate massagers: a beginner's guide
Prostate massagers are designed for internal use and shaped to rest against the prostate. Many people start out curious and unsure where to begin, so here's a straightforward guide.
- Ships from Canada
- Discreet box
- No duty
- Free shipping from $75
Our top 3 picks
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Best for most peopleAneros Eupho Trident Series Prostate Massager ($123.99)The smallest Aneros prostate massager, with a small head for targeted stimulation.
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Best valueAneros Trident Series MGX Male G-Spot Stimulator White ($123.99)Balanced MGX shape with a ribbed stem. Suited to beginners and experienced users.
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Best upgradeAneros Vice 2 Vibrating Prostate Massager ($310.00)Two motors, 18 vibration patterns and 4 speeds, with a remote.
Shipping is $9.95, and free on orders from $75. A water-based lube such as JO H2O Classic 2oz ($19.99) or a toy cleaner such as Wicked Cleene 4oz ($18.99) helps you get there.
Hands-free or vibrating?
- Hands-free (non-vibrating): move with your body's own muscle contractions. Aneros is the best-known brand. Good first picks: Aneros Eupho Trident Series Prostate Massager ($123.99) or Aneros Trident Series MGX Male G-Spot Stimulator White ($123.99).
- Vibrating: add vibration for stronger sensation, sometimes with an app. Examples: Aneros Vice 2 Vibrating Prostate Massager ($310.00) and Lovense Edge 2 Adjustable Prostate Massager ($189.99).
Choosing a size
Start small. A slimmer, smooth massager is easier and more comfortable at first. You can always try a larger model later.
Lube is essential
Always use plenty of lube. Water-based lube is the safe choice with every material (JO H2O Classic Personal Lubricant 16oz ($48.99)). Some people prefer a thicker lube for longer sessions.
Getting started
- Take your time and relax; there's no rush.
- Use lots of lube and go slowly.
- Stop if anything is painful.
- Many people take a few sessions to get comfortable. That's normal.
Cleaning
Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner such as Sliquid Shine Natural Toy Cleaner 8.5 oz ($27.99) before and after each use, and dry fully.
Quick answers
Which prostate massager should I start with? A small hands-free model such as the Aneros Trident series.
Do I need lube? Yes, always. Use plenty of water-based lube.
Will the box say what's inside? No. Every order ships in a plain box, and your statement never lists the product.
How does shipping work? Orders ship from Canada in a plain, unmarked box, so there is no duty. Shipping is $9.95, and free on orders from $75.
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