Lube makes sex and toy play more comfortable, and the right type matters. Here's the short version.
The four main types
| Type | Best for | Works with silicone toys? | Works with latex condoms? |
|---|---|---|---|
| Water-based | Everything, everyday use, easy clean-up | Yes | Yes |
| Silicone-based | Long-lasting, shower and bath | Usually no (can damage silicone toys) | Yes |
| Oil-based | Massage, external use | Check the toy | No (oil weakens latex) |
| Aloe / plant-based | Sensitive skin, gentle feel | Yes | Yes (check the label) |
If you only buy one, buy a water-based lube.
Our picks
- JO H2O Classic Personal Lubricant 16oz ($39.95): a classic water-based lube in a big 16 oz bottle.
- JO H2O Classic Personal Lubricant 2oz ($11.95): the same lube in a travel size, good for trying it out.
- B-Luvd Silicone Lubricant 4oz ($29.95): silicone-based and long-lasting. Keep it away from silicone toys.
- Dame Aloe Lubricant 4oz ($24.99): aloe-based and gentle, from Dame.
- Beaver Butter Water-Based Lube 8 oz ($39.95): Beaver Butter water-based lube, a popular all-rounder.
Tips
- Reapply rather than over-apply. A little goes a long way.
- Patch test if you have sensitive skin.
- Winter shipping: water-based lubes can freeze in transit. Let the bottle thaw at room temperature before use; it's fine.
Quick answers
Can I use silicone lube with silicone toys? Usually not. It can make the surface tacky. Use water-based instead.
Which lube is safe with condoms? Water-based and silicone-based lubes are generally fine with latex condoms. Oil-based lubes are not.
How long does lube last? Check the expiry date on the bottle and store it at room temperature.
Lube plus a toy usually tips your order over our $99 free-shipping line, and every order ships in a plain box.
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