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Anal play for beginners: plugs, kits and lube

Submitted by Team HUSH on Mon, 2026-11-09 04:10

Anal play is one of the most searched topics for first-time buyers, and also the one people feel most unsure about. The good news is that a few simple rules cover almost everything: go slowly, use plenty of lube, and only use toys made for the job. This guide explains how to choose a first toy, why a training kit helps, and how to look after it afterwards.

  • Ships from Canada
  • Discreet box
  • No duty
  • Free shipping from $75

Our top 3 picks

Shipping is $9.95, and free on orders from $75. A water-based lube such as JO H2O Classic 2oz ($19.99) or a toy cleaner such as Wicked Cleene 4oz ($18.99) helps you get there.

Three rules before anything else

  1. Only use toys with a flared base. The anus can draw objects in. A wide base stops the toy from slipping all the way inside. Never use household objects.
  2. Use lots of lube, and reapply it. The anus does not make its own lubrication. A thick water-based lube is the most comfortable choice.
  3. Go slowly and stop if it hurts. Mild pressure is normal. Sharp pain is not. Avoid numbing gels: pain is a useful warning sign, and you want to feel it.

Choosing a first plug

Start smaller than you think you need. A small, tapered silicone plug is the easiest first toy, because it is body-safe, easy to clean and comfortable to wear.

Why a training kit helps

A training kit gives you two or three sizes, so you can move up gradually over days or weeks instead of guessing at one size. It is the most popular way to start.

Use the smallest size until it feels easy, then move up one size. There is no rush.

Which lube to use

Our lube guide explains the types in more detail.

Getting ready

  • Empty your bowels beforehand if you can. Some people also rinse with a small douche: Honey Play Box Bulby Auto Spray Anal Douche System ($100.99) is one option. Use plain lukewarm water, gently, and not every day.
  • Trim fingernails and relax. A warm shower first helps.
  • Start with a lubed finger, then try the smallest toy. Breathe out slowly as you insert it.

For couples and for men

Anal toys are for everyone. For people with a prostate, a prostate massager is often the next step after a plug. Our prostate massager guide covers that. If you are exploring with a partner, talk first and agree on a word that means stop. Our couples guide has more ideas.

Cleaning and care

Wash anal toys with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner after every use. Never move a toy from anal to vaginal use without washing it first. Our toy cleaning guide covers storage and materials.

Discreet delivery

HUSH Canada ships in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing, and shipping is free on orders over $75. Our discreet shopping guide explains billing and packaging.

Questions

What is a good first anal toy?

A small, tapered silicone plug with a flared base, or a training kit with several sizes so you can move up gradually.

Does anal play hurt?

It should not. Mild pressure is normal, but pain means stop. Go slowly, use plenty of thick lube, and never use numbing products.

What lube should I use for anal?

A thick water-based lube is the safest all-round choice and works with every toy. Silicone lube lasts longer but can damage some silicone toys.

How do I clean an anal toy?

Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner after each use, then let it dry. Never move a toy to vaginal use without washing it first.

How does shipping work?

Orders ship from Canada in a plain, unmarked box, so there is no duty. Shipping is $9.95, and free on orders from $75.

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