Toys for couples: a guide to sharing
Toys aren't only for solo time. Bringing one into the bedroom together is easier than many people think. Start with something simple, and talk about it first.
- Ships from Canada
- Discreet box
- No duty
- Free shipping from $75
Our top 3 picks
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Best for most peopleJe Joue G-Spot Silicone Rechargeable Bullet Purple ($72.99)Curved bullet with five speeds and seven patterns. Waterproof and USB rechargeable.
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Best valueJe Joue Maximum Stretch Silicone Cock Ring Black ($22.99)100% silicone stretch ring. Can be boiled or washed in a dishwasher.
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Best upgradeLovense Dolce Adjustable Dual Vibrator ($229.99)Dual vibrator with a flexible, adjustable neck. IPX7 waterproof and USB rechargeable.
Shipping is $9.95, and free on orders from $75. A water-based lube such as JO H2O Classic 2oz ($19.99) or a toy cleaner such as Wicked Cleene 4oz ($18.99) helps you get there.
Four easy ways in
- Vibrating rings. Worn during sex for extra vibration for both partners. A stretchy silicone ring such as Je Joue Maximum Stretch Silicone Cock Ring Black ($22.99) is a simple first step; Satisfyer Strong One Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring ($70.99) adds a rechargeable vibrating ring.
- App-controlled toys. One partner wears or uses the toy; the other controls it from a phone, across the room or across the country. Examples: Lovense Diamo Vibrating Blue Tooth Cock Ring ($217.99) (a ring) and Lovense Dolce Adjustable Dual Vibrator ($229.99) (a dual vibrator).
- Small external vibrators. A bullet or small wand can be used during sex, held by either partner. Je Joue G-Spot Silicone Rechargeable Bullet Purple ($72.99) is a small, rechargeable option.
- Comfort extras. Lube (JO H2O Classic Personal Lubricant 16oz ($48.99)) and a washable throw such as Liberator Fascinator Throw Mini Merlot ($105.99) keep things comfortable and easy to clean up.
Talking about it
- Bring it up outside the bedroom, casually.
- Browse together and pick something small first.
- Agree on a "pause" word and check in as you go.
Long distance
App-controlled toys keep working over the internet, so partners in different cities can still share them. Check each brand's app and privacy settings before you start.
Quick answers
What's the easiest toy for couples to start with? A vibrating ring or a small bullet.
Do app toys need Wi-Fi? They connect to your phone by Bluetooth; long-distance play goes through the brand's app over the internet.
Will the box give it away? No. Every order ships in a plain box.
How does shipping work? Orders ship from Canada in a plain, unmarked box, so there is no duty. Shipping is $9.95, and free on orders from $75.
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